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4. Reframe the Narrative

Relaxed African American woman meditating in seated position on yoga mat at home, listening to music with headphones.

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Often, we internalize our struggles as personal failures rather than seeing them as part of a larger journey. But what if, instead of viewing pain as a roadblock, we saw it as a redirection? What if, instead of seeing struggle as proof that we’re falling behind, we recognized it as preparation for what’s ahead?

When I reframed my narrative—when I started seeing my setbacks not as signs of inadequacy but as initiations into deeper self-awareness—everything shifted. I stopped defining myself by what had gone wrong and started recognizing the strength I had gained along the way.

Try this: Rewrite a personal struggle as a story of transformation. Instead of focusing solely on what was lost, highlight what was gained. This simple shift in perspective can be a powerful tool in reclaiming your power.

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