How To Let Go Of Society’s Expectations And Embrace Your Path

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The Freedom in Defining Your Success

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Despite the challenges, I wouldn’t trade this path for anything. The freedom to build something on my own terms, to pour my energy into work that feels meaningful, to wake up every day knowing I’m walking in alignment with my values—that, to me, is success. It’s not about checking off society’s boxes; it’s about creating a life that feels whole, authentic, and fulfilling.

So if you’re feeling the tension between external expectations and your personal truth, I encourage you to pause and ask yourself: What does success mean to me? And once you have that answer, hold onto it—because that definition is yours to claim, shape, and live by.

Steph R. Long is a Chopra-certified Ayurvedic health educator, meditation instructor, and well-being coach. She’s also the founder of holistic wellness and coaching practice SRL Well-Being and the former Deputy Director of Enterprise for Refinery29 Unbothered, where she oversaw health, wellness, and spirituality content. For more wellness insights, follow her on Instagram and YouTube, and subscribe to her podcast.