Can you rel8 to this? So…after posting my blog on “Was Tonex On The DL?!” the responses that came to my facebook page and the comments here on were amazing.  But I realized something in the course of writing and reading, some people really don’t understand the impact of the down low and others […]

A little more than a week ago I spoke for the very first time about my newly released book, “Life AFTER the Down Low.” The crowd was predominantly gay and it felt like some of the men came prepared to dig their claws into this woman who would brazenly write a book about such a […]